Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Tuesday 6/25/13

This morning I was planning on spending a few hours getting ready for my first class and going down to the school with K. for the afteroon, but L. ended up getting sick and K. had to cover for her 9:00 am class.  Since I still don’t know how to get to the school by myself, I quickly grabbed my things and left with her.  Good thing I planned today’s lesson yesterday so I wasn’t completely unprepared. 
            I sat in on the English class that K. was subbing for.  The students are working on a lip sync to the Black Eyed Peas “Where is the Love” to perform for a final project.  I didn’t know this at the time, and was really confused when the students were asking K. to define Bloods and Crips.  K. is from the UK, so she had no idea what they were talking about.  Good thing I’m pretty savvy on American gang culture.  You never know when that information will come in handy.
            K. and I found a corner at the side of the schoolyard to eat a lunch that M. and I grabbed at a grocery store on the way to the school this morning.  It’s a little uncomfortable eating there because we know that many of the students often have to choose to pay for bus fare to get to school rather than eat.  We did pack an extra cheese sandwich for one of the student translators because K. said that he works so hard, but hardly ever has enough food to eat.  She also said that when he does, he ends up sharing most of it with everyone else, so we had him come and eat in the corner with us.
            There was randomly a kid on the schoolgrounds wearing a Utah Jazz jersey.  Of course I had to get a picture with him.  This is actually the second Jazz jersey I have seen here.  I wonder if this is evidence of Deseret Industries in action?  One guy at the school had actually heard of the Utah Jazz, though.
            After lunch I  met with the student council to get them involved in the creation of the counseling center.  They are so excited to be a part of this and had a great conversation about what types of services would benefit the students the most.  This language barrier things is pretty frustrating, though.  I wish I could just magically speak Creole so I don’t feel like such a speedbump in this process.
            I then taught a 3-hour class on relaxation and coping skills for half of K.’s health psychology class.  We had a great discussion on what stress looks like in Haiti, and what coping skills people already use.  Just like Ghana, the first answers were singing, dancing, and religion.  I then taught them ten different techniques they could use when working with their own clients as counselors and social workers.  They really got into it and had a lot of great questions about the purpose and effectiveness of each one.  Their favorite (and mine) was the body shake.  All my Judi’s House friends will appreciate this.  J
            J., one of the Creole students picked K. and I up from the school since he was down in Petion-ville at the time.  We ended up picking up about 8 other ETS (university) students along the way and they just kept piling in to the back of the pick up so we could drop them off at a taptap station.  K., J., and I stopped at a grocery store called Giant before heading home.  This place was the Walmart of Haiti filled with all the American imports you could ever want.  The constant socioeconomic extremes is sometimes overwhelming,  and it’s hard not to feel the associated guilt. 

            I was reminded again of the poverty perspectives as soon as I got home.  C. told me of an interaction she had with one of our friends who lives near our house.  We walked to his house on Friday to see some new piglets.  There we saw the humble shack he shares with his seven brothers and sisters and parents.  A friend of C.’s had sent some money to help pay for a YMCA-sponsored soccer camp.  When he exchanged exchanged the American dollars to Haitian goude, he ended up with an extra 30 goude (the equivalent of about 75 cents).  Instead of keeping that money for himself (which could have helped feed his family), he saw an old woman walking down the road and gave the money to her because, as he explained, she needed that money much more than he did. 

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